How to Prepare for Your First Divorce Consultation in Singapore

Booking a first consultation is often the hardest step — not because of paperwork, but because it makes something you’ve been thinking about privately suddenly feel real. If that’s where you are, know that a consultation isn’t a commitment to anything. It’s a conversation to help you understand your options.

What a first consultation actually is

Think of it less as “hiring a lawyer” and more as “getting an honest read on your situation.” You’ll walk through what’s happening, ask questions, and come away with a clearer sense of your legal position — what’s likely, what’s uncertain, and what steps, if any, make sense next.

What’s helpful to bring, if you have it

You don’t need everything below to have a useful conversation — but the more you can share, the more specific the advice can be:

• Marriage certificate
• Details of your children, including ages and current care arrangements
• A general picture of assets, such as property, CPF balances, and savings — exact figures aren’t necessary at this stage
• Any relevant documents you’ve already received, such as divorce papers if your spouse has filed
• A rough timeline of key events, if your situation involves a specific incident or turning point

Questions worth asking

• What track is my case likely to be on — simplified or contested?
• What’s a realistic timeline for my situation?
• What should I be doing, or avoiding, in the meantime?
• What will this likely cost, given my specific circumstances?

It’s okay not to have all the answers

Many people come into a first consultation not sure exactly what they want — save the marriage, separate amicably, or something in between. That’s completely normal, and not something you need to have resolved before reaching out.

Confidentiality, always

Whatever you share in a consultation is treated in strict confidence. This is a space to be honest about your situation, without fear of judgment.

Ready when you are

There’s no perfect time to start this conversation, and putting it off rarely makes it easier. When you’re ready, Eunice is available for a consultation via WhatsApp — consultations are S$500 per hour, discussed upfront with no surprises.